Fay is amazing . I found her after my husband of 32 years had an affair . It was an utter shock when I discovered this but after a few weeks apart we both decided we wanted to give our marriage a second go . My way of dealing with this was to ask him every question I could think of , email after email night after night I would send them . It wasn’t working well as you can imagine but once we meet with Fay amongst other things suggested writing everything down in a journal instead , wow such a simple thing to do but worked miracle for me . She never took sides or applied blame she just offered a hand to help us try and solve our problems.
One of the main reason I picked Fay was that she worked on empathy , which my husband was sadly lacking towards me , she got him to open up in a safe space and talk about his feelings for the first time since the affair and we grew to understand the reasons behind the affair. She helped us to communicate with each other , something we couldn’t do without fighting.
Now we feel we have the tools , thanks to Fay , to continue on our own to rebuild and make stronger our marriage . We will still be seeing her in the future for top up’ sessions when needed to keep us on the right path with our marriage . I can’t thank her enough for all her help and advise.